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Winter Recess

Sometimes Violence Is the Answer

When I Learned I Love Different 2.1

Crashing Out in the White House

When I Learned I Love Different Pt. II

[Short Story] Some Heroes Need BBL'S

White Men Can’t LARP

There is No Such Thing as Moderate

Trump is President: We Have Only Ourselves to Blame

It’s Time We Started Mandatory Interventions for Online Male Radicalization

The New Red Tide: Why some Black Men are Considering Trump

A History of Violence: J Cole and the Message

Beware of False Profits

Maybe We Should Give Homeless People Homes

There's Never Enough Baby Oil, P Diddy, Abuse, and Power

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Behind the Aesthetic, Trad Wives and the Obsession with Submission

We Must Reckon with the Fact That Many Will Feel Betrayed on Election Day

Maybe Marriage Isn't the Prize

When I Learned I Love Different: I

Black Power and Palestine

There is No Collective Liberation Without Collective Empathy

It's Time to Bring Back Shame!

Sonya Massey, Michael Brown, and the Audacity of Hope

I Gave You Power: Do You Have What it Takes To Be the Shooter?

The Transformation of Stanley Fritz

Tangled: Pain, Pride and Parenting

Sucker 4 Love Date Scene

I Tried to Make a Web-Series, Here's the First Episode

Dear Kings: Stop Letting Porn Teach You How to Have Sex

That one Time I Thought I was Gay

Short Story: F*ck Boys Shall Rise!

Join Me This Evening for an Intimate Virtual Session

KONY2012: Waiting for My Naked, Drug-Induced Spiral

Short Story: The Nice Guy Finds Love

That Time I Got Friend Zoned

But What Happens When the Boogeyman Erases You?

"Safety" Over Everything

They Haven’t Seen My Curveball: The Best Advice I Ever Heard

Dancing Around the Cycles of Harm

The Dangerous Precedent of ‘Ally’ Criticism as Antisemitism

Searching for Safety on the Internet

[Short Story] Confessions of a Criminally Horny Lover Boy

Maybe there Should be Rules in Rap Battles

Repost: I Gave You Power: Do You Have What it Takes To Be the Shooter?

I Don’t Think We Fully Understand the Risks Women Take to Date Us

The Qualifications For Humanity

"Women's Business" Hip Hop, Rap Beef and Cannon Fodder

Everyone Deserves a Name

There's No Such Thing as a Nice Guy in Rap

Short Story: Do it For the Likes

I'm Still Not Sure I Know How to Love

We Don’t Trust You: Rap Beef and the Lies We Tell Men

One Day We'll All Be Working for Tyler Perry

Winter Recess: Here's What I have been Reading

Jimi’s Hands Worked

Dispossession, White Supremacy, and the Case for Reparations

Trayvon Martin, and the Struggle to Remain Hopeful

Marsha P Johnson: Ordinary Woman with an Extraordinary Impact

House Negroes And Racial Stockholm Syndrome

Our Ancestors Hands Do Work!

Yes Men Can Be Victims of Sexual Assault

What Dr. King Taught Me About Parenting and Religion

His Radical Hope is for Me

Loving Loudly in Honor of Dr King

Getting Over the Main Character Syndrome