I Gave You Power: Do You Have What it Takes To Be the Shooter?

There’s a Superficial Power in Guns, I almost fell for its allure

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Song Title: I Gave You Power

Artist: Nas

Producers: DJ Premiere

Vocals: Nas

Assistant Engineer: I'oreal Coppedge

Assistant Engineer: Joy Burrell

Mixing Engineer, Recording Engineer: Eddie Sancho, Mastering Engineer: Tom Coyne

Writer: Nas, Chris E Martin,

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When I listen to Nas’s “I gave you power,” it brings me back to the first time I ever held a gun. I was 8 years old, and It was a black pistol with yellow tape at the bottom and rust on the edges. I remember picking it up and being surprised by the weight; I had never imagined it would feel this heavy. I didn’t tell anyone what I found, but I didn’t need to. If a gun was in my house, it belonged to one of the adults, and they needed it. I may have been a child, but I understood the environment we lived in; I knew that safety was only as real as your ability to maintain it, and even then, it was fickle. The only thing a neighborhood like East New York Brooklyn could offer was chaos and tension. With no other support systems available, the best tools to fight against these challenges were money and power. No one in my family had money; we were as poor as the poor could get. Without the financial ability to escape our circumstances, the only other option was to capture and wield some power. For my father and many of the people around us, that power could be wielded through a gun. 

“How you like me now? I go blaow

It's that shit that moves crowds makin every ghetto foul

I might have took your first child

Scarred your life, crippled your style

I gave you power

I made you buck wild”

~Nas~

It might sound crazy to a lot of people reading this, but all we wanted was safety, and the only viable path we saw to getting that was with a tool capable of taking lives. 

That encounter would not be the last time I held or saw a gun. It was only the beginning in what would be a cycle of violence and aggression I am lucky to have escaped. My father, in his desire to protect himself and those he loved, brought that gun home and hoped never to use it. His goal was protection, and while he focused on making sure his family was safe, I had to navigate the same blocks while facing my fears. My father is not someone who believes in looking weak. If I told him about the anxiety I felt while trying to survive, he would have whooped my ass and sent me right back to the streets.  As he saw it, “How would I survive a world run by white men committed to destroying me if I cowered in front of one of these niggas.” 

I'm seven inches four pounds, been through so many towns

Ohio to Little Rock to Canarsie, livin harshly

Beat up and battered, they pull me out

I watch as niggaz scattered, makin me kill

But what I feel it never mattered

~Nas~

 My second encounter with a gun happened when I was in the fifth grade. I got into a fight during lunch period and was a little too cocky about the victory. At the end of the day, my opponent and his older brother cornered me in the schoolyard to demand a rematch. When I said no, his older brother pulled out a gun and put it to my head. I could either fight or die. I remember the moment I realized my life was on the line. I looked around for an adult to bail me out, but no one was around. Other students were watching, but they were too interested in the drama or too scared to intervene. I was on my own. The brother didn’t use the gun on me that day. Instead, he and a few of their friends jumped me while everyone watched. I vowed never to be so weak again. 

When you’re weak, you cannot control what happens to you or the people you love. When my father was robbed on his way home from work, he felt helpless and weak; that’s why he brought a gun into our house. After having a gun pointed at my head and then getting jumped in broad daylight while people did nothing to help me, I fully understood the implications of vulnerability. I did not want to be weak, and others needed not to think I was either, so at 10 years old, I became obsessed with what I believed was power. The ability to strike fear into the hearts of others, the power to decide who lives and dies, and the status of being a shooter. If I wanted to be all-powerful, I needed a gun, and I needed to have the balls to use it. If Power was safety, the gun was my ticket to it.

The next time I held a gun, I was 13 years old and obsessed with dreams of being all-powerful. Until I had a weapon, I was stepping into every space as food. I would go home and be physically and verbally abused by my stepmother, outside, the cops and gang members harassed me to no end, and in school I was teased for being poor.  I was tired of being made to feel useless, ugly, and helpless; I wanted the power to change all of that. My neighborhood had a “retired” hustler; let’s call him Lavelle. Lavelle would talk to the boys in the neighborhood about his war stories and give us tips on how we could do better than him. He also had a small arsenal of weapons. Two weeks after my 13th birthday, he invited me to his place and handed me a pistol. I want to tell you that holding this weapon in my hand scared me, but it didn’t. I was ready to snatch back the power so many people had taken from me, no matter what it took. My body started to shake as I thought about the revenge I would exact on the cops who constantly harassed me but were nowhere to be found when the Latin Kings would pull up to the block.

I imagined the frightened look on my stepmothers face when I pulled the gun on her the next time she called me stupid, or punched me in the face, I tried to think of what it would feel like to pull that trigger. I shuddered. Lavelle chuckled at my reaction and asked if I was “ready to become a man?” I was, or at least I thought I was. He wasn’t convinced. 

Yo, I can hear somebody comin in, open the shelf

His eyes bubblin, he said, "It was on"

I felt his palm troubled him shakin

Somebody stomped him out, his dome was achin

He placed me on his waist, the moment I've been waitin

My creation was for blacks to kill blacks

It's gats like me that accidentally, go off, makin niggaz memories

But this time, it's done intentionally

~Nas~

As a condition of keeping the gun, I had to use it at least once In front of him. Lavelle's backyard faced an abandoned building where there were always stray cats. He caught one and put it in a Sunnyvale crate. If I wanted to keep the gun, all I had to do was shoot the cat. I couldn’t. He didn’t make a big fuss about it, instead he took the gun, let the cat go and walked me home. On the way there, he gave me props for not pulling the trigger and said, “Ain’t no power in a bullet, young blood. Go to school”

I have thought long and hard about that experience and the way it played out. I like to believe that in his own way, Lavelle was trying to help me, I also think he was successful. My thirst for power was driven by fear and loneliness; the “strength” that gun gave me was superficial. If I had the stomach to use it, the results would be devastating, but it would not fundamentally change the feelings of pain, hurt, and fear that lived in me. No weapon could give me power.