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Lisa Feldstein's avatar

I really loved this post! So honest and true. I will say that consent works both ways: In hetero sex it isn't just women who need to consent. Men do, too. Really everyone involved, regardless of gender(s), should ask for consent.

Years ago I was a trained, volunteer sex educator. I was often amazed by the things people believed to be true. This was back when people still had land lines; today San Francisco Sex Information (www.sfsi.org) provides free, confidential, accurate, non-judgmental information about sex and reproductive health to approximately, 9,000 people per year via email and phone. Please spread the word to those you know! There is a great alternative to porn for sex information that is free and easy to access.

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Stanley Fritz's avatar

Hi Lisa! Its been too long, thanks for commenting and sharing this resource!

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