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I Cosplayed as the 'Nice Guy' to Attract Women-Here's What I Learned
I decided to try on the 'Nice Guy' costume to win women over. Little did I know, it would lead me on a journey of self-discovery and shattered…
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Stanley Fritz
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Dancing Around the Cycles of Harm
Diddy's behavior is not an anomaly, it's the norm, we have cultivated an entire generation of abusers, it doesn't have to be this way.
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Stanley Fritz
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Maybe Marriage Isn't the Prize
What Cam doesn't understand is that the rules have changed.
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Stanley Fritz
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How Men Become Abusers, Reflecting on My Toxic Behavior with Women
We need to check the dangerous behavior of our boys before they become abusers. I almost became one.
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Stanley Fritz
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That one Time I Thought I was Gay
How toxic masculinity ruined summer camp and my friendship
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Stanley Fritz
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Behind the Aesthetic, Trad Wives and the Obsession with Submission
Are you looking for a partner or a pet?
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Stanley Fritz
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Dear Kings: Stop Letting Porn Teach You How to Have Sex
Pornhub should not be where you go to for lessons on a healthy and fulfilling sex life
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Stanley Fritz
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How Men Become Monsters
My Relationship with the Police, and the Conflict in the Middle East
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Stanley Fritz
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Getting Over the Main Character Syndrome
Sometimes it's really not about you, and that's ok.
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Stanley Fritz
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Trayvon Martin, and the Struggle to Remain Hopeful
Nothing will change if we accept Black Death as the norm
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Stanley Fritz
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House Negroes And Racial Stockholm Syndrome
It takes a herculean effort to survive under white supremacy, House Negroes are doing their part.
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Stanley Fritz
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Lessons in Leadership: How to Say Goodbye
After seven amazing years, I'm leaving Citizen Action of New York
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Stanley Fritz
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