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AdeOla Fadumiye's avatar

This really stirred something in me. The line between survival and self-blame in this country is razor thin—and capitalism keeps sharpening it. It takes and takes, then gaslights those it exploits into believing their struggle is a personal failing rather than a systemic design.

It also has me reflecting on my own relationship to wealth. What does it mean to desire wealth in a system that weaponizes it? And what happens to the soul when chasing stability begins to feel like chasing approval from a system that was never meant to see you?

I keep asking myself—can we actually slow down in America? Is it even possible in a place that values speed, productivity, and extraction above life? I’d love to know what it looks like for those who have chosen to walk away—who’ve said “forget capitalism, forget the patriarchy, forget white supremacy”—and actually live more slowly, more fully. What does that look like here, in this context?

This piece is such a necessary gut check. Thank you for naming what so many feel and fear to say

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for sharing this so vulnerably and bravely friend. This was hard to read and yet so necessary for all of us to hear. Thank you for trying. Always grateful for you.

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